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April 25, 2012
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A Strawberry Saturday

About two years ago the Kenan Connection (the group for MBA Students’ trailing spouses) hosted a blueberry picking activity.  I realized that I had never been berry-picking ever in my life and was interested to go, but Sam was too young to drag along to such an affair.  So I decided to try my luck last year.  When I inquired again, I made another discovery:  there was also a season for strawberry picking in Chapel Hill!  That was much more appealing to me because I LOVE strawberries!

Apparently the season for strawberry picking happens much earlier in the year.  Lucky for me my friend T was also interested in doing some berry picking and came across Notes from a Mom in Chapel Hill’s post on Jean’s Berry Patch.  She noted that Jean’s would open for picking by April 9, and that we shouldn’t wait too long if we wanted to go and get some good berries.

So – after a 24-hour weather watch to ensure that there would be no rain, we took the girls out to pick ’em strawberries just last Saturday morning.

The weather started out as perfect, it was cool and sunny with a little bit of cloud cover.  Jean’s Berry Patch was an easy 20-minute drive from where we live, and to think we had never been down that road in all our 4 years here in Chapel Hill.

We arrived at the same time that Elie’s family did which made the berry-picking a lot more fun for the little ones to do together.  This was a first for Sam too and she dove right into it.  At first that she started by picking the berries I pointed to her.  Her untrained fingers would hold the bulb and when she’d apply pressure to yank them, some berry juice would spill on her hands.  Her inner-OC kicked in after that and her new strategy was to have me pick the berry for her to put in the basket.

I taught her a little bit about picking the berry from the top of the stem, but the berry juice damage had been done.  She was just happy to listen.   Jamie on the other hand, was all to happy to pick and squish.  I think she even tasted a few!

My Mommyology Strawberry Picking

My Strawberry Girl at work

The bunch that we got was fairly decent compared to the other strawberry pickers.  You pay $1.55 per pound — I think we only paid $1.50!  Nonetheless we were out there for the experience first and foremost.

After picking there’s an area with a sandbox and some see-saws so the girls got to hang out a little bit and play with the berry patches as their backyard.

On our way home we stopped by the shop at the front which sold pre-picked strawberries, some strawberry made pastries and pound cake.  We brought home the Strawberry bread and 1/4 of a pound cake which were pretty good!  I wouldn’t mind going back for more.  In fact, I’m sure Sam would like to make a trip back, if only to see her “friend”… the dancing plastic strawberry man (with the nice smile).

My Mommyology Dancing Plastic Strawberry Man

Who would've thought this thing flapping in the wind would be a main attraction?

And as for the 20 little berries that we took home — what became of them?   Sam, Jamie and I tried our hands at a simple strawberry muffin recipe!

My Mommyology Homemade Strawberry Muffins

Not to shabby, wouldn't you say?

 

April 22, 2012
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My Mommyology Likes: Chapel Hill’s Touch-A-Truck Event

It has been a busy busy April, I can tell you that!  The warmer Spring weather brought with it a whole slew of fun activities and new things for us to do.  Sam is of age where she can appreciate all these little adventures in and around town, and Jamie is old enough as well to participate (as far as her memory goes, it will have to be through the pictures!).

My Mommyology Touch-A-Truck

On it's 4th year!

Last weekend we went with Elie and some of their friends to the 4th Annual Touch-a-Truck Event at the University Mall.  Sam was because she knew we were going to be hanging with Elie for the weekend (I think if we’d put them in a box the excitement would be the same!), and also because as we pulled up to the parking, she saw all the vehicles already parked.  She also caught sight of the bouncy house, another plus in her book.

The event was a winner all-around.  The standard entrance fee of $5 a head (kids 2 and below are free) helps benefit the North Carolina Children’s Hospital’s Promise Grant program and Troop 39’s community service projects and activities.   By nature of the event, the kids can explore all sorts of trucks and vehicles of all types in a safe environment.  They had actual firemen, state troopers, a K-9 dog, medics and owners and drivers of the vehicles talking to the kids about what their vehicle could do and how it operates.  The kids were allowed to wear helmets, honk horns, sit in the driver’s seat and play with the knobs and all of that.  It was pretty interesting!  Some of the vehicles were also on call; in fact the medics had us nicely climb out of the Ambulance we were playing in because they had to leave to pick up a patient!  Heehee!

My Mommyology Touch-A-Truck

Some of the hundreds of photos we took.

Sam was thrilled with the activity because she got to “drive” the different big vehicles that she normally just sees in books and on the road passing us by.  The State Trooper even let her sound the siren in her car twice!  Sam was not shy in the least and approached the police officers and firemen with a big smile.  She answered all their questions (politely!) when they talked to her too.  I was impressed.

My Mommyology State Trooper Car

Sam: What does "this" button do?! (press!)

We even got to watch an actual helicopter land!  That was a first for me.

My Mommyology Actual Helicopter Landing

Click on the picture or the link above to see the video we filmed!

It was a nice warm day out, and thankfully there was a stand outside that sold cold water and refreshing soft drinks.  The girls were troopers too (no pun intended).  There were a lot of vehicles and a lot of people standing in line to try each one out; so Sam and Jamie ate their lunches while waiting for their turn.

The kids took home a lot of free things, such as construction hats and Junior Trooper stickers.  Sam got her hands painted for free twice.  We even signed up for a free trial Art Class for Jamie next month!

I am obviously a Touch-a-Truck fan.  I love how activities like these make learning fun, relevant and interactive for the kids.  Sam asks to see the pictures we took everyday, and she tells me which truck is which and re-lives the tidbit of information that she picked up from that particular vehicle.  She is asking if there will be another Touch-A-Truck Event soon as she already wants to go back.

And while I know the last four years they’ve only done it once each time, I am hoping that somehow there are other activities like these in our immediate future.

April 18, 2012
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The Hardest Job in The World TVC

Once in a while, you come across (or in this case, Polly so graciously led me to it – thank you dear!) commercials worth sharing.  I don’t very often promote the ads of the competitor of a former employer I used to have (in a past life, eons ago!), but then again, who can resist those types of commercials that just hit home.

To all the other moms out there who will watch this (click on the image or on the link below to view), there’s not much more to be said really. Except maybe, Amen.  😉

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Scene from the TVC.

 

The hardest job in the world, is the best job in the world.

April 16, 2012
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The Gifts of Being a Trailing Spouse

I did not know that there was a “term” or a “category” for the type of mom and spouse that I am, at least until I collaborated with Tala of Mommy {T} Coach a few weeks ago for her blog give-away, and guest blog post.  Apparently there is, and I am one of the many so-called trailing spouses.

Let’s face it:  the word “trailing” itself doesn’t exude a lot of positivity.  Somehow it sounds like you’re sacrificing and giving up a lot (dreams, ambitions, etc) in a valiant effort to stay true to your vows.  To a certain extent, when you make this choice, everything I’ve said holds true; and if you’re anything like me, then all you’ll see at first is the concern, the worry and the anxiety that comes with such a change.  BUT!  As the Care Bears (yes, the Care Bears!) have said time and again, every cloud has a silver lining.  Now, four years into my “trailing spouse” role, I can most definitely tell you that it is more than just a silver lining.

My Mommyology Trailing Spouse

Just the typical "dad in office attire, mom in housewife attire" photo...

To read more about The Gifts of Being a Trailing Spouse, drop by Mommy {T} Coach‘s site.  Feel free to share your thoughts about your own trailing spouse / mom experiences, we’d love to hear them.  Mommy {T} Coach also has a lot of life lessons and food for the soul to offer, so browse on by!

Thank you so very much Mommy {T} Coach, for allowing me to share yet another part of myself. 🙂

April 13, 2012
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And the Winner is…

My Mommyology Blog Give-away winner

Hip hip hurray!

It’s time to announce the winner of Mommy {T} Coach’s blog give-awayAnd without further ado — CONGRATULATIONS TO JENNY O!  We will be sending you a separate email so that you and Mommy {T} can work out how or when to best claim your prize.

In the meantime, I feel that some of the other answers (some were not posted on the site) are also still very much worth sharing.  A lot of what these moms are saying resonate with me, and it is comforting to know that I am not alone in feeling this way!  So here they are:

What was your biggest career challenge as a mom, trailing spouse (or both), and how were you able to manage it?

Anne:    My biggest career challenge is finding out how to make a dream the primary source of income.  The only thing to do is to keep at it even if it feels like it’s going nowhere at times.  Strong support systems also help, tremendously.

Jenny OWhat still is my biggest challenge is to decide whether to concentrate on being a WOHM or WAHM – concentrate on my full time job or on MBL plus the blog/advocacies and family!!  Doing all 4 is driving me nuts!

OCMominManila:  The ability to put my career and business in the back seat during times when my kids need me most (like right after giving birth or when there’s no yaya).  How I’m able to manage?  Scheduling is key and empowering your support group with the right tools and skills.

PollyBreastfeeding!

PatriciaThe biggest challenge I’ve ever encountered (and still am) is managing my time. I run a business from home and I have 2 kids, and no full-time help. Plus, we live in Singapore and have no relatives here to run to for free babysitting. So far, I’m just keeping my priorities in order and try my best to work like a fiend when the kids are sleeping.  Oh, and I’m super organized when it comes to almost everything. =)

Olga:  My career challenge as a mom is to leave my kids to go to work!

Mitch:  Biggest career challenge – when i gave up my practice as a pediatrician and decided to be a full time mom to my first born.  It wasn’t easy at first, having no income and being dependent to my husband, but seeing my baby grow day by day is priceless.

Mench said:  Deciding to leave at 530 pm at the latest and not working at home after a full day of working.  I do focused work while at the office so I can leave early to spend more time with family and have time for my interests.

Janice said:  The greatest challenge has been trying to transition from being a full-time working mom to being a work-at-home mom since I got pregnant with my 3rd child.  It has been a year now since I gave birth but I am still unsuccessful at finding regular work-at-home opportunities that will provide sufficient additional income for our family.  So, I’m actually contemplating going back to working full-time again though I hate even the thought of doing so.

Thank you once again to all the moms and wives and everyone else who participated in our very first give-away!

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